Hope4others, I do hope you are not hurting from something crushing said to you recently. If so I feel for you and hope you feel better soon.
Yes I have been crushed many times by things people have said to me. I am very sensitive.
By far the worst thing that ever was ever said to me I have never fully recovered from. One of my daughters told me she hated me and that she wished I was dead. She said That I was a whore (that hurt and I was remarried not a whore) and that I would never care about anyone but myself and she would never talk to me again. That was about 10 years ago. She is 29 years old now. It hurt sooooooooooooo much I felt like she literally took a knife to my heart. I am divorced from her Father and she is a Daddys girl. Her Father told my children total lies about me when I left him and she believed him. He tried to turn them against me. I knew when she said that to me and how she said it to me (over the phone) that she would never take back those words. I tried to stay with him (her Father) but he was mentally and sexually abusive to me. I mean it was very BAD!!!! She was the only one that believed or listened to these lies and she does hate me. Strange that my oldest daughter insisted that her Father molested her (did not take it to the authorities) but I am the one that is the bad person. My other 3 children are on good terms with me. She also has not talked to my daughter her older sister in 3 years. She often will not talk to her brothers for months and even her Father if they do not side with her. She has never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend and still lives with her Father. She doesn't work, etc. I have know since she was 10 that she has emotional problems probably because of body chemistry or bipolar type thing. My exhusband would not let me have her treated.
Sorry Hope, I did go on with that didn't I. Just wanted to vent. You asked and I told you.