Welcome Axeman. If I understand this correctly, your suggestion is this-
One tack might be to enlist her aid in dealing with the issues that you have that challenge your faith in the WT
"Honey, I don't want to be weak in faith. Maybe we can study this together.
I have doubts about ...., so let's look it up in the wt library, the Proclaimer's book, let's see if we can
both understand it."
I tried that, but my wife won't do it. It is a good idea- but for me, it would have had to have been done
a few years ago. There's a success story from a guy who believed he was anointed. That was his
route. He had an open family study which included "What do others say about this belief? How will
we be able to tackle it in field service until we understand why they believe that way?"