Yep my fade has come to a stop, got the phone call off my dad today he asked me if I celebrate Christmas and Birthdays and I said yes, and so he said they are going to go ahead with the disassociation letter I sent over two years ago!!!!.
He said that after today the only phone calls i will get are if there is an emergency, but nothing social my response to that was well you havnt seen or spoken to me for over a year Im used to it.
He also said there was no bad feelings and that I should never doubt there love for me, and that the stupid thing of it is they can associate with Mike and the kids just not me.
Im really happy and calm about it, Ive had my initial cry over it, and now I feel good that i dont have to lie and hide things anymore.
Its such a relief.
Luv ya all
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