This is a topic that gets discusses regularly here. Probably because the issue keeps coming up.
We know how badly we have been hurt and most of the anger is justified towards the WTS
And I certainly know how hurtful it is to have someone simply turn that around and say things like we deserved it for sinning
JWs come here and tell us they are God's people and are better, cleaner, show more love than anyone else and we have turned our backs on God when we see a difference between God and a man-made orgainzation.
Knowing what we know about the org and having had our lives ripped to shreds deserves our anger.
But I have to wonder why JWs come here. We know some come because they have doubts and are really looking for answers. Some land here quite innocently and as soon as they see apostates they run back to the WTS - which is fine if that is where they want to be.
And yes there are some who come here because:
- they believe they are above the WTS' warnings about the intrnet
- they think they can help questioning ones go back
- they think they can talk the rest of us to go back
I think this last group is the one who wind up actually help us decide we are never going back to the WTS. They are doing us a favor by confirming our decision to leave.
Getting angry at them doesn't bother them one bit. It winds up confirming what the WTS says: We are all angry, depraved and lost. They may even be quite pleased with themselves that they can stir us up.
So if our anger does nothing to help them then it must be doing something.
It hurts us. It stirs up all the old hurts but rather than expressing the anger in a way that helps ease our pain it just lashes out.
Hmmmm this gives me an idea.