One that sticks out in my mind (because it was directed to a member of my family) was way back in 1981 when my oldest daughter was engaged to a brother in another congregation. As she proceeded on in the "JW dating" aspect she realized that all was not well.
There were many questionable practices that were accepted in that home, despite the dad was an elder (in name only-very old and practically "unused" in the KH) as was two of the three sons. The fiance in question was a lot younger than the other kids....and must have been born to them in their late 40's. He was spoiled and pretty well did what he wanted to do.
He had told my daughter (among other things) that she belonged to the "itty-bitty-titty club" and teased her about that. She got fed up with the inappropriate "jokes" and ended up calling off the engagement. Like I said... there were MANY other things that contributed to this.
Two Sundays after this, the oldest brother-elder gives the talk at our KH....."Living up to our VOWS"....and you can guess how THAT went! We were sitting three rows away from the dais---hard to miss his eyes and hateful expression. He glared at both me and my daughter so many times...when he was "making a point" on breaking our vows in Jehovah's eyes, blah-blah-blah.
His arrogance and "smell ME" attitiude had always made me sick, (long before the engagement) but this incident was just so obvious and over-the-top as his personal platform to sneer at my daughter while dispensing WTS crap.
I was burning with anger and frustration by the time he was finished. Needless to say....I didn't go up to him afterwards and congratulate him on his fine, fine talk.