I don't think lisBObeesa refrains from all judging, I don't think anyone does.
I just don't understand cutting out of your life someone you called a friend or family just because someone else tells you to, or saying that you are doing so because of the Bible's counsel (to let the elder's be your conscience), or to say you are doing so out of love.
Yeah. What he said.
Life is not black and white. I believe killing is wrong and a bad thing. But I would do it and it would be the right thing to do if I had to to protect my family. Same with judging.