kls...... This may not be what you want to hear, but sometimes the truth is hard to accept.
You seem to be strong-minded about not wanting people to tell you to seek help from someone other than you. Since you feel so strongly about this, I will not suggest that you do it. It would do NO GOOD. From your comments, though, it seems that you have one hell of a lot of pent up frustration that I don't think will go away just from venting.
Blueblades made a good point..... that not all JW's are sick-minded. Don't hate them. Understand that they are misguided, yes, but hatred is too damaging to YOU. Believe it or not, the GB you speak of are, for the most part, just a bunch of f*cked up, misguided people that don't mean you or me or anybody any harm intentionally. Do I think that they hurt people?..... YES Do I think they mean to?... NO
The harm that is inflicted upon you is from YOU ONLY!!!!!!!!!!
I had a friend, recently that said to me that he didn't think that his mother deserved his forgiveness, yet, for all the crap that she did to him. I honestly had never expressed this feeling to him before, but I will express to you what I expressed to him........ Showing forgiveness to someone has NOTHING to do with the other person and has EVERYTHING to do with YOU growing as a human.
Conversely, holding on to pent up frustration doesn't hurt anybody but ourselves!!!!!!! Trust me, I have to remind myself of this EVERYDAY just to be able to continue growing....
I hope you understand, like I said in my previous post to you, that what happened to you was terrible and undeserved, but ONLY YOU can control how you feel about it in the future..... Take care.. Brad