Thanks to the internet the JWs can't keep us apostates separated/alienated from one another any longer. Years ago, before internet, when my mom was disfellowshipped, she was living in a small town. She had no one. I mean NO ONE.
Shunning is a cruel and unusual punishment. Sadly, she ended up going back to the cult. But as far as I'm concerned, the JWs have no hold on anyone who does not want to be controlled by them.
Internet has set us free!
Of course, it helps to move three provinces away from the people who shun you!
ESTEE