Eden one - I certainly can understand where you are coming from with your MIL statements. The reply I got when trying to tell a family member about the Conti case was, "she wasn't interested in apostate literature".When I explained I wasn't aware the New York times was apostate. I was then told "well don't read overseas news papers because this is going to confuse you".
(e.g 2)When I also tried to bring up the resent Gonzalo Campos case with a friend who lives in the San Diego area and was totally oblivious to it. The reply I got was "he had better and more important things to worry about".
Both examples just flawed me really. I guess that just about sums up everything.