Your experience has been similar to my recent experiences. My fleshly brother died recently living in the same congregation territory he had since birth (62 years) true he left JWs as a teen but our sistter is still faithful and our mom was faithful to death. How many active JWs attended only 3 family member but many ex JWs and all his worldly friends.I loved the love shown by his true friends (mostly bikers.)
Many of the faithful elderly in this area have had very poor attended JW fuereals.The excuse given I didn't know her or him very well. Enough of their excuses I don't want to hear how loving they are.