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  The Watchtower Study: The one way to make your views publicly known

  by sir82 in

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  as most of us here are aware, the watchtower "study" weekly meeting is no "study" at all.

  paragraphs are read, pre-arranged questions are asked, and the "correct" answer is a slight re-wording of the sentences in the paragraph.. however, sometimes (many times?

  depending on the congregation), members could use the study as a way to publicly air their opinions on a variety of topics, without fear of interruption (so long as the answer was couched in enough "theocratese").

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  Even congregation prayers can be a vehicle for "sermonizing," calling attention to trends, asking Jehovah to adjust the thinking of mislead ones.

  Unwarranted "digs" can be found in any talk, prayer, comment or experience given at the Kingdom Hall.

  Its a subtle technique learned from reading the Watchtower, where counsel can be subtle and implied, not straight-forward.

  It would be funny to see a perpetrator get called out at the Kingdom Hall: "What are you implying Bro. Forktongue? Are you trying to say I'm materialistic?"

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  Whut

  by Farkel in

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  thought i might post some.

  what would you like to hear?.

  farkel

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  Just don't spend too much time on it. You know generation x has a short attention span.

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  Did you know of any JW elders or JW pioneers that were "racist"?

  by booker-t in

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  i know this might sound like a question from "la-la" land but as a black ex-jws most of the white jw's that i did have contact with were really nice.

  i was talking to a hispanic ex-jws the other day and he was telling me of some of the racist experiences he had as a jw.

  i did not contradict him but i never experienced racism from caucasian jw's.

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  There are a few references below to racism among JW's.

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/7391/86653/post.ashx#86653

  I spent thirty years as an elder in Arkansas. I met a few crusty old elders who were openly racist and a few younger ones more subtle in their racism. There were contradictions all over the place. Even racist JW's didn't mind field service in black areas. It sort of reinforced their superiority to see the run-down housing, etc. I knew a couple of prominent elders who scrambled like crazy to prevent their daughters from marrying black brothers.

  Generally, JW's work hard to overcome any appearance of prejudice.

  I spent a few years as well on the Texas-Mexico border. The relationship between the "English" and "Spanish" congregations is curious. Both groups tend to do their own thing, despite worshipping the same god.

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  Here it is: my da letter

  by BlackSwan of Memphis in

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  i sent it out nov 14. my bday.

  thought that i would finally share it with you guys.

  in the end, that story is just not that important now.

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  Black Swan,

  Well done. Your carefully distilled JW history, contradictions and failures contained not one unnecessary word. Unfortunately, the typical witness would mentally shut down twenty words in. A witness mom or dad might gloss over the entire letter looking for the faintest hope of your "return."

  Your profile indicates you are in your thirties. If so, you have an opportunity to steer your life more productively. Although my wife and I are enjoying retirement, we would trade chronological places with you in a heartbeat and do so many things differently.

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  Hi ~ new here...

  by Riverwatcher in

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  i'm so happy to have found this site.

  i'm not a j/w, but my son is.

  several years ago, he became involved with a j/w, although she was being shunned at the time.

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  {QUOTE}"Go to the hall with him. He will just be ecstatic! Meet the folks at the hall. Ask them about their personal lives. Don't let them put you in a charicature. He will try to get you to start a study, try to avoid that!{/QUOTE}

  Riverwatcher,

  The above is very good advice, although difficult to pull off. If you were able to make an appearance at the Kingdom Hall without divulging your true feelings, it would enhance your position immeasurably. The elders and others of the young couples' peer group would have difficulty painting you as evil. Someone viewed as a potential convert gets the very best from Jehovah's Witnesses.

  You are just buying time for your son to wake up of his own volition. There is no other way for him to do that. No rational argument, threat of disinheritance, criticism of his choice of spouse and her parents, etc. will do nothing but solidify his stance.

  It's going to be a long haul. Good luck!

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  What have Jehovah's Witnesses made known?

  by joelbear in

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  after a century of preaching and selling literaturature what do people know about the jw's message.

  they don't take blood transfusions.

  they don't celebrate birthdays.

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  They have made known that God's name is Jehovah or something similar in an individual language. Of course, the exact pronunciation of the name is lost. What matters, though, is that we use a name for God, something common in one's language. This makes us a "people for his name."

  Does that make any sense at all?

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  Anyone from Seattle Here?

  by NiecyMe in

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  would love to meet some people in the area...or know were everyone is hanging out.

  it would be nice to meet some people that share my past life as a jw.

  i am enjoying hearing about all the stories.

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  I was born in Renton, finished school in Kent. Although, I left the area many, many years ago, I still have many JW relatives in the Seattle area.

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  My last meeting

  by PoppyR in

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  so last night we had the last book study at our house, next week all the congregations change around and i asked for it to be moved.

  so i sat in on it, and afterwards we had a bit of a 'party'.

  felt quite emotional really, although i haven't answered for a long time i put my hand up to read a scripture just so i could mark the last time i did this.

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  "Feel like I have pulled one of my last suckers away from the JWs, I'm never going to another meeting."

  What a huge relief when one finally comes to this conclusion!

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  Over 160,000 Simply Left The "Truth" Last Year

  by minimus in

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  that was the comment that a former elder made at the local meeting today in his comment.

  evidently, he and his wife heard a bethel speaker's comment during his talk say that (i believe the figure was) 167,000 people did not get disfellowshipped but simply left.

  the ex-elder made it a point to say that the elders should be watching to help out the flock before they up and leave.

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  Would the governing body be concerned enough to do an exit poll? If they would actually listen to the genuine concerns of those who have left and not simply dismiss it as "crazy talk", much could be learned.

  Honestly, though, the GB lacks the humility to actually listen to those who depart. It's much easier to label them as "not of our sort."

  As someone said above, internal ministry would, at this point, be far more productive than the "field ministry" JW's engage in. The organization is just too insensitive to see it.

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  OMG - Part 18 of my exit story EXPLODES !!!

  by Amazing1914 in

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  i am in the middle of publishing my book on my exit from the jws.

  it is still hosted on freeminds, but is undergoing revision to clean up grammar, spelling, split a couple of chapters and add a couple of chapters.

  i will also be adding an appendix of correspondence with the watchtower society.

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  Thanks Jim

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