Terry, I'm sorry they still seem to have a hold on your emotions..
I also have encountered their response that "They (The Elders etc) are only men and god will judge their hearts"..speech when faced with comments about their behavior!
It does sound like you answered from your heart tho..hopefully that made an impression on their hearts and will get them thinking ..
Sorry they shook you up so to speak..hopefully the day will come when you realize they are just people and not to be feared..
Snoozy