Sorry to hear for the loss of contact. That must be truely heart breaking.
Your not alone buddy and just know you made the right choice. And maybe your stance could be what saves your kids from the cult.
scruffmcbuff
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Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad
by charonsdog intoday, july 1, i wrote what has become my annual contact with my parents.
it is their 51st wedding anniversary.
i e-mail them from across the world where i now live to let them know that i haven't forgotten them, i still love them, and that i'm doing okay.
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How do you feel you have progressed ?
by stuckinarut2 inin the months or years since leaving the organization, how do you think you have progressed as a person?.
(or if you have regressed too i guess?).
what aspects of personal development are you happy with?.
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scruffmcbuff
Ive become a new person. Thats the only way i can put it.
I see the family who shunned me a decade ago as strangers and i see a few of those awful worldly people i was warned about as my family.
The worlds not such a scary place afterall.
And this site and its residents are amazing.
I joined posted a bit and went quiet. But i shall be participating more now.
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Anyone ever know gays in the hall that are lying to them selfs or others?
by blownaway ini know of three situations i saw myself.
the first one was when i lived in arcadia.
all the people i use names on are dead and gone so no probs.
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scruffmcbuff
Yes i knew of a young lad who ended up DF for it
My sister who shuns me is a lesbian and her partner is her "room mate" i know this as a fact.
Both pioneers both still struggle to cover bills!
They say our love wont pay the rent.....
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New JW Full Length Expose' Movie Coming to Cinema Entitled…"APOSTASY!"
by MADMARY innew expose' jw film coming the 27th of july, 2018. .
see link below:.
apostasy:exclusive trailer for jehovah's witness drama being hailed as best british film in years.
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scruffmcbuff
Cant wait to watch this! Looks amazing i sent the trailer to my DF friend we will meet up and watch it.
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The new personality
by longgone ini've been thinking about the changes we make within ourselves after leaving the wts cult.
i'm not referring to how we spend our time now that we actually have some, but who we have become, or working to be?.
the gb carries on and on about "stripping off the old personality and putting on the new one.
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scruffmcbuff
Shortly after being disfellowshiped and subsequently homeless at a young age i was saved by everything i was taught to hate.
A man in his 20s, smoked,drank, smoked weed,swore, road a harley... took me in. He showed me kindness i never thought possible. Especially from such a worldly man ;)
It taught me i can be who ever i wish and still be kind.
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Undecided
by Disassociated Lady 2 ini have recently been disfellowshipped (after being reinstated in march).
i saw a group of jws gathered in the town car park yesterday.
they seemed startled when they recognised my car and talked amongst themselves giving one another a satisfied grin!
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scruffmcbuff
If its just to prove a point then here is what i would do.
Walk in to the hall 15/20 mins early, happy smiling, greeting your brothers and sister as you walk to find your seat, dead front and center.
If asked by an elder to meet them in the second school ( is that still a thing) kindly decline as your happy where you are. leave at the end, as normal happy and fufilled with spiritual nourishment.
Show them that thier authority dosent exist.That the disfellowshiping actually means fuck all.
That what I did!
Enjoy the moment.
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JWs accused of pressuring Syrian refugees in Northern Greece to convert - so far, 40 have converted
by AndersonsInfo ini just received the following link to a video where some claim that jws are pressuring syrian refugees in northern greece to convert.
fyi, i tried to locate the date of the video, but couldn't, so don't know if it is recent or not.
https://www.facebook.com/ajplusenglish/videos/vb.407570359384477/791011651040344/?type=2&theater.
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scruffmcbuff
like moths to a flame...
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JW Stand On Concealed Carry
by Cold Steel inif a jw wanted to get a concealed carry permit, would the society have any moral or ethical problems with it?
in other words, if one of your elders noticed you were carrying concealed, would they be apt to just ignore it or would they counsel you on it?
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scruffmcbuff
you make VERY valid points. if you MUST attend a kingdom hall your probably a target anyway. and anyway.
Assumuing your half decent at concealment and keep things to yourself no one should even notice!
An inner waistband holster works wonders.
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JW Stand On Concealed Carry
by Cold Steel inif a jw wanted to get a concealed carry permit, would the society have any moral or ethical problems with it?
in other words, if one of your elders noticed you were carrying concealed, would they be apt to just ignore it or would they counsel you on it?
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scruffmcbuff
As above the stripping of "privilages" but id feel pretty ok about that if i was you!
My old job demanded i very overtly carried firearms ;). but i was already DF by that point!
Conceal carry away my friend! you never know when you may need it!
*must resist to deviate on to the best EDC firearms*
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What Songs Best Fit you when you learned TATT and Afterwards?
by Wasanelder Once inthe work of john lennon best fit my situation.
first, i found out.
i found out.
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scruffmcbuff
Im afraid theres no pun or lyrical connection to mine just a song i had some wild nights to with those nasty worldly girls the lovely elders warned me about!
DropKick Murphys- Dirty Glass