Like Finally Awake, I had that assembly moment (several actually). Always felt extremely lonely in large gatherings of JWs
The slow dawning on me that the magazine articles discussing homosexuality were crap and betrayed not one iota of understanding of the issue - this led me to wonder what else might be crap.
The realisation that there were hundreds if not thousands of gay Jehovah's Witnesses who had been born-in, something the org has never really acknowledged and never offered any support for - a totally invisible group of people that they would like to pretend don't exist
Studying with a baptist for a couple of years, I realised that many of the "stock" scriptures to prove certain things (particularly around judicial matters - such as James 5:14 and 15) were misapplied when the context was taken into account. I realised from these study sessions that I was learning just as much if not more than the man I was supposed to be helping find "the truth"
Feeling so much happier when I stopped going to meetings, then when I returned, feeling miserable and out of place again
Reading Crisis of Conscience and finding none of it surprising
Finding this site and JW Facts...that's where I am now and the journey of questioning continues