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  Help! My 14 year old has a cyber stalker and won't take it serious

  by CADSkin in

  1. social
  2. family

  so my 14 year old daughter recently has been duped into sending a facebook friend a video of her house and random crap by someone pretending to be a 17 year old in the uk.

  this set off major warning bells in my wife and i so we started to investigate.

  although all very innocent she was obviously being played by a cyber stalker.

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  PERHAPS YOU SHOLD NOTIFY THE LOCAL POLICE, JUST TO BE SAFE?
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  I will give my husband the divorce he wants

  by losingit in

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  2. friends

  not because i agree with him.

  because i do not want the divorce.

  but because i love him and i want to respect him.

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  Hang in there, dear losingit! You have been given some sage advice here. I know you are taking it all in.

  I know you will do what you have to to give your girls the life they deserve, and show them what a strong woman is, that they should never allow a man to treat them as a second class citizen or doormat. I'm sorry, honey, but you must be aware that your husband is a manipulative, abusive self serving a**hole. You have to know you deserve better. Go back and re-read your post. If it was someone else who had wrote it, wouldn't you wonder why someone would want to stay with that guy? I hope you can get counselling to help you through this. Change is hard.

  I just want to add that deist is spot on when he says to get a bulldog of a lawyer. I would say pitbull! AND LISTEN TO THE ATTORNEY! Too many women start to feel bad about hurting their soon to be ex. DON'T! he'll play you. HE DIDN'T PAY YOUR RENT AND WAS WILLING TO SEE HIS GIRLS ON THE STREET? NO sympathy for that dog. Please don't clue him in on anything your going to do. The element of Surprise is a very useful tool. Be careful who you share with for now. All the best to you and your girls.
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  Can this be true?

  by tenyearsafter in

  1. social
  2. current

  i was listening to a news report yesterday that said that after two weeks of being available to the public, only 226 people here in colorado had signed up for health coverage under the aca offered through the colorado state exchange.

  that seems hard to grasp...the population here is over 5mm, so that works out to .0045% (if my math is correct) of the population signing up for health insurance.

  the report also mentioned that besides the 226 that actually signed up for insurance coverage, another 2800 created a log in account, but made no insurance purchase.. do other states seem to have the same underwhelming response to this program?...either the program is flawed, or there isn't the demand for health coverage that the government anticipated and sold as fact to the american public.. i do know that my wife's current coverage was cancelled (as not compliant with aca requirements, whatever that means!

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  iT IS CERTAINLY POSSIBLE, AS THEY HAVE HAD NUMEROUS PROBLEMS WITH THE SYSTEM.
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  My granny died.

  by LouBelle in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  last week friday i was delayed in going to work, for which i am glad.

  it was an opportunity for me to help my gran one last time.

  she thanked me, told me she loved me and that i would be very blessed.

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  So sorry for your loss, LouBelle.
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  Why I can never escape abuse

  by KariOtt in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i have been abused in some way or another my entire life.

  my dad started molesting me when i was 3 years old.

  he physically molested me until i was 16 and we moved into a new house where i had a lock on my door.

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  My heart goes out to you,Kari. You have been through so much, and still seem to have a larger, forgiving heart. Hope you are still in counselling, and living a good life that you deserve.
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  OK - I've had it - My letter to the KH

  by LisaRose in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the whole time i lived in colorado, i had the dubs come by once and leave a tract.

  but since moving to california, they are at my door so often i asked them to put me on the "do not call" list.

  this did not stop them, in fact i have asked four times, plus once i called the kingdom hall and left a message, they still come, the last time this past saturday.

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  Would you consider placing a note on your door that says " NO JEHOVAHS WITNESSES"?
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  am i the only one on here who couldnt give a TOSS about the AGM--?

  by bigmac in

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  2. beliefs

  the title says it all.

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  ruderedhead

  Don't care.
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  A Taste Of Their Own Exclusion Medicine

  by metatron in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ah, the pleasures of shunning and exclusion!

  the thrilling self-delusion that god loves you but really hates others.. except....... that it cuts both ways.. witnesses get to exclude people thru df'ing and general shunning (oh, what fun!

  ) but must also exclude themselves from halloween festivities, thanksgiving dinners, some weddings, christenings, christmas celebrations and , of course, birthdays.. "what's that, grandma?

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  I think the difference is the witnesses don't care. The adults, at least, feel self righteous when they miss normal things. It's the kids who are hurt when they have to miss things like birthdays.
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  Hubby's going to the big meeting instead of celebrating our anniversary

  by KariOtt in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my hubby just informed me that he wants to attend the "big" meeting saturday instead of celebrating our anniversary.

  seems i was right when i accused him that the cult means more to him than i do.

  asshole.

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  You were way harsh, losing it! You didn't know the background (i.e., he changed the rules 6 yrs into the marriage), and yet ripped her a new one. I think your reasoning is off as well. He hurt her feelings, she had a knee jerk reaction, vented. When they worked out the situation, she posted how happy she was, basically letting everyone know he did the right thing, and you still criticize.

  Perhaps your own troubles are clouding your outlook? I hope the craziness ends in your life soon. In the meantime, have a glass of wine, take a deep breath and relax.

  Kariott, enjoy your weekend! Glad you used your head with your hubby. If it makes you feel any better, my husband has not celebrated but one or two anniversaries in 33 years,and it was because there was something he wanted to do, and even ruined the surprise party our kids tried to throw for our 30th. Sometimes it hurts, but I look at the bigger picture. He's a good provider, we have 4 amazing kids, he helps out my sister & Mom financially when they need it, he's still very active in the bedroom. I have a great life. Sometimes we just have to take a step back after the initial hurt. hope the weekend is everything you want it to be.
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  Got Accosted by 2 JW Women While Pumping Gas Yesterday - Weird

  by flipper in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  absolutely weird.

  minding my own business while pumping gas - this 60 year old short jw lady with fluffed bun styled 60's hair and her 30 year old attractive 5 ' 10 inch jw lady partner came straight up to me as i'm pumping.

  they picked the wrong hombre .

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  ruderedhead

  Well done!!