Interesting that you bring up being shunned because of your parents.
Myself and my siblings experienced the very same. I was a Ministerial Servant with every privilege allowed to that position. However, because of who my father is, no sister in the 3 congregations in our city would ever consider getting involved with me.
My best friend married my sister. His parents were hysterical over this. "I can't believe you're marrying into that family!"