What a dynamic thread. I liked the phrase of "praying the gay away." Not that I think that will help, it is just a great phrase - highly offensive, but still very creative.
As I was making my exit from the JW religion and religion in general one of my problems related to the fact that there really are gay people. We had a young man in our congregation that was gay - he just was and everyone knew it. But he loved god and also loved what we knew as the "truth."
I could never figure out how god would allow this young man to deal with this conflicting reality. In the end I escaped from the religion, and so did he. We have become great friends So I guess there was a happy ending.