None of the information in my last post, however explains why I could sometimes use the term, "toxic" masculinity.
If you object to the term, I ask why?
Consider, In Australia, in the last two years, a woman a week has been murdered by her husband, de facto, partner or whatever term used to describe their relationship
And only last week, and attractive young Israeli exchange student was raped and murdered by a young man. This led to a number of protests demanding that the streets be made safe for women to walk alone at night. No-one explained how that can be done, though.
But the elephant in the room question is, Why do some men do things like that? Is it an instinct hidden deep in our collective psyche, inherited from our ancient ancestors?
Or, is it a cultural meme, shared by some men (but not all)? When we get in a group of men watching an attractive young woman pass by, what do you think of the too common conversation, often along the lines of, "look at that b****, I'd like to f*** her."
If you heard such a conversation in an all-male group, what did you do/say?
No need to comment, just reflect.
Footnote: I lay no personal claim to perfection, and do not attribute perfection to any other male or to any female.