Black Sheep,
When reading your post two thought came to mind....
first... "When persons are in great danger from a source that they do not suspect or are being misled by those they consider their friends, is it an unkindness to warn them? They may prefer not to believe the warning. They may even resent it. But does that free one from the moral responsibility to give that warning?" - THE WATCHTOWER January 15,1974
second.....
My parent became Jehovah's Witnesses in the early 60's. They were young adults searching for a way of life. Someone to tell them how to live. Being that they lived in Sacramento California, they could have joined a number of religions or cults. I think things could have been alot worse, they could have joined, Peoples Temple, Branch Davidian, Unification Church and Symbionese Liberation Army, ect....
...I'm not much help am I. Nevermind
Lisa