Posts by nugget

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* Video* "Man Escapes Being Crushed By A Boulder"

by rip van winkle in

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=40ohp0ftbsc&feature=youtube_gdata_player.

"False Prophets" part notably uncomfortable

by Separation of Powers in

so, service meeting last night.

bro handling the "false prophet" part was notably disturbed.

every time he spoke of previous "expectations" his body language was like "oh my god, can you believe i'm saying this?

nugget

I was under he impression that today the GB makes decisions based on a 3 thirds majority vote. It is not a unanimous decision.

They can't help themselves they lie and lie and lie. Not inspired but they are God's representatives. How do they even know that if God isn't talking to them. Not inspired, often wrong but believe what we say is right now even though it may change later.

Muppets

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WATCHTOWER BUILDING PROJECTS REVEAL HYPOCRISY ABOUT STRESSING URGENCY OF PREACHING WORK

by steve2 in

based on a letter elders in the united states have just received in the past week from the governing body, work on the warwick complex will take " a few years" to complete.

concurrent with this, the organization urges the rank and file to urgently preach the "good news of the kingdom" because we are so deep into the end.

so, why bother with the warwick project - or indeed the just advised project in the united kingdom to relocate the london bethel?

nugget

It depends where you are as to whether the structure is expanding or not. Certain places are seeing the expansion of administrative buildings but other places have seen their branches close. They have consolidated and rationalised the life out of thei structure and now wish to cash in on all that prime real estate. It is after all a business.

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Jehovah's Witnesses are NOT false prophets

by SloppyJoe in

jw
friends

tonight on the service meeting we discussed why jws are not false prophets.

of the ten minute part two were spent discussing that jws just had wrong expectations and only very minor changes over the years although nothing specific was mentioned.

the other eight focused on the core bible truths that have remained the same over the years.

nugget

I would buy the Watchtower argument if they implied in their publications that what they were proposing in their magazines were just hopes and expectations of men who were not inspired.

However the magazines present their current thoughts as absolute truth and there are penalties for failing to follow and support the doctrine. They say that the men are not inspired but loyalty to those men is absolute and any doubt is also met with censure and expulsion. The GB are set up as God's representatives on Earth. How can they have such a role if God does not communicate with them? If he does communicate why all the adjustments?

It is not ok to say that they are better people because they are in the organisation and that is what counts when they do not extend the same courtesy to others. I am a better person due to my adjustment in thinking but I am treated apallingly. They are also false in saying that witnesses have a better standard of family life, are more honest and have a positive influence on the community. The witness family life is dysfunctional with no unconditional love and the constant need to earn the place in the family. Witnesses are no more honest than anyone else but lie regularly to householders, interested people, the media and the courts to protect the reputation of the organisation. They bring nothing to the community, they have no programmes to support the disenfranchised and those struggling, Kingdom halls are not available for community use.

If they say the words often enough the members will believe it but it is not true and is just papering over the cracks. So sad and deluded.

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Elder's attitude to dating a non-believer vs acting like a Christian

by ItsMyLife in

i've not been on here for quite some time, due to personal reasons.. i have been dating a wonderful man for nearly 11 months now.

he's a non-practicing cofe christian.

i am a recently inactive jw (oh, how i regret getting baptized at 15).. my dad is an elder.

nugget

To go out with a non believer is treated as disloyalty to Jehovah and will result in marking which is one step up from disfellowshipping. It is unchristian and extremely insulting to the other person who is punished as well. Jws do not see that this behaviour makes hem appear arrogant and extreme they are so busy worrying about rules and punishment. The message of Christian love has been buried under a pile of regulations no wonder people from mainstream churches which teach about the grace of god, love and forgiveness are confused and insulted by the witness approach.

If you love one another then that is what counts. If he has a family that doesn't follow bat shit crazy regulations then that is a blessing. It may be that your family will soften their approach later but you can't count on it. However if this man cares for you and is willing to support you through this then be there for each other. Your long term happiness and your life is your own, don't allow people trapped in a cult to determine who you can or cannot go out with.

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The Confessed Pedophile Who Raped Me Is Going To Be Made A Elder Again, Need Help Please!

by Bubblegum Apotheosis in

years ago you read my horror stories about being raped by a jw.

i was nine years old when this took place, now the man has been getting all his works in order.

what do i do to stop the seventy-year old pedophile from getting his position back?

nugget

The elders do not understand the impact of sexual assault and rape since they are not the victims. They are trained to deal with it as a sin which in itself is a travesty. The psychological impact and long term damage that victims carry with them is incomprehensible to them. This ignorance leads to them making bad decisions motivated by the idea of protecting the organisation's reputation rather than the people within the congregation.

No paedophile should ever be in a position of trust and oversight they abdicated that right when they raped a child. No victim should be told that they should keep quiet and told that they are the problem. No child is responsible for their rape.

What action was taken at the time and were the police involved? Did you get medical attention or was this handled totally within the confines of the Kingdom Hall? Are you aware of any other victims?

I would speak to the lawyers involved in the Candace Conti case and the new case currently going through the courts. You may not wish to pursue your case but your evidence may be of value to them.

I would also write to the elders bringing to their attention the recent court cases and highlighting that not only the society by the local congregation has been found liable and that the elders have been found culpable. I would remind them that these cases are resulting in large financial awards to the victims. By appointing a known paedophile to a position of oversight they are now making the congregation morally and financially responsible for this man. Should he rape again you would have no choice but to testify against the man concerned and the way your case was handled. This means that a court would have sufficient evidence to award substantial damages to any future victim.

I would also change congregations and use it as an excuse to stop attending.

Perhaps the thought that they would have a financial liability may make them think again.

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Evolution, Biogeography VS. Experimental archaeology

by Brother of the Hawk in

i thought of posting this on an ongoing thread regarding proof of noahs flood by poster *lost*, but i think a separate thread is needed.

this is why.. first my disclaimer.

this thread is a theory since so many people love the theory and so as not to hurt feelings and insult anyone, this is only a theory.. my personal observation is this, as long as you bash watchtower all is ok. as soon as you try to present any resemblance of christianity or any belief in the bible, such as the flood, you are personally bashed.

nugget

I think you may have breached item 1 of the posting guidelines but that is for the moderators to decide

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Would You Shun Your Own Son or Daughter For A Million Dollars for the rest of your life??

by Narcissistic Supply in

jw
friends

simply for the money..

nugget

no

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Evolution, Biogeography VS. Experimental archaeology

by Brother of the Hawk in

i thought of posting this on an ongoing thread regarding proof of noahs flood by poster *lost*, but i think a separate thread is needed.

this is why.. first my disclaimer.

this thread is a theory since so many people love the theory and so as not to hurt feelings and insult anyone, this is only a theory.. my personal observation is this, as long as you bash watchtower all is ok. as soon as you try to present any resemblance of christianity or any belief in the bible, such as the flood, you are personally bashed.

nugget

I am sure you presented argument to back your point of view but unfortunately I found the personal attacks distateful and these served to detract from anything you said. To assert that someone was selected by evolution to be weeded out was truly disgusting and whether the individual was offended or not I am sure that many people on the forum did find it offensive.

When an argument has been lost intellectually then the watchtower teaches us that a personal attack is in order you seem to have learnt that lesson well.

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The final chapter in the confusedandalone story...

by confusedandalone in

this morning i get a frantic call from my sister (who has been baptized 1 year and one month and never attends meetings anymore).

in tears she tells me that this morning my father picked her up in the car and told her that i was am apostate.

that i no longer loved jehovah and that i was going to be disfellowshipped.

nugget

Once it was clear that they were not going to leave us alone and were forming a JC I made it clear that we were not going to attend. When they called me to deliver their verdict I refused to talk to them. When they delivered the letters in the night to our address I threw them in the bin unopened. Once I decided they were not going to have any power in my life I cut them out of it and refused to play their games.