Chris, the emotional and mental bullying that you're going through are so painful. To have your own family members treat you that way, to feel the frustration of not being able to reason with them, is to know what many have gone through and are going through right now. Your story is just too familiar and close to home for myself and others... and yet it is yours alone.
Strength to you now and in the days to come. You've shown that you're a person of character and integrity.
And yes, married men do go to bars! And if you start demanding chocolate milk, you may find that married men also can get kicked out of bars...
Edit: Oh, yeah, and congrats on growing a beard! It's one of the first "worldly" things I did, and my wife LOVES it