<<<<Waving at Blondie & Irreverent>>>>>You guys have lots of fun this weekend. I know we did............wish we could be there......sniff sniff
Jade
what a lovely dinner we had, grilled shrimp, chicken, rice with steamed veggies and salad.
then we had coconut cake & coffee for dinner!!!
blondie & irreverent showed up just as we started grilling.
<<<<Waving at Blondie & Irreverent>>>>>You guys have lots of fun this weekend. I know we did............wish we could be there......sniff sniff
Jade
we just had our awards ceremony, and here are some pics.
marilyn mc'd and did an outstanding job!
she purchased ribbons for 10 categories.
The Texas gang (Jade, Roo, & Megadude) are home and safe after 14 hours of driving. It was worth every minute though.
What can I say except that I met some of the nicest people in my life. I feel like I have 25 new close friends so here are just a few of my memories:
Joy and Steve, you and your family are such gracious hosts and I just want to say thanks for welcoming us into your home. And what a beautiful home it was. Joy has a smile that would melt anyone's heart. I feel like I've known her for years. Steve is so sweet and has the prettiest eyes I have ever seen.. And you should see the kids, what a beautiful family.
I had a blast kayaking with safe4kids. We were so busy yacking away like old friends even though we just met that we didn't realize that we had drifted way down the beach. Wish we lived closer. I had fun building sand castles with your kids too. They are wonderful.
***Watching all the adults ride the clown bike*** I think Dorian had it down the best.
***Talking to everyone there for hours like we were old friends
The last night we were there, Venice, Roo, Dantheman, and I went to eat and then to the karaoke bar. And let me tell you Aztec, he sings too!!!!!
Well, it's late and time for bed. Thanks everyone for a great weekend!!!!
Jade
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we went to see dog soldiers at the cinema last year and i've just bought the dvd.. an absolutely brilliant film.
it's about a group of british squaddies on exercise in the highlands of scotland that get attacked by werewolves.. great humour throughout, lots of blood and guts and a good storyline.. take a look at the website: www.dogsoldiers.co.uk.
Icon,
We rented that a few weeks ago and loved it. It will be one that we add to our collection.
Jade
(note from mom -- cruzanheart -- our jennie, who is 9 years old, wanted very badly to join the forum, so we agreed that she could as long as she posts and reads while sitting on one of our laps, for censorship purposes!
she wrote the following essay over the weekend after we had a talk with her about the circumstances surrounding her grandfather's death.
she's letting me type it, but the spelling and punctuation is hers.).
(((((((((((((Jennie)))))))))))
I am soooo sorry you lost your grandpa. My husband and I lost my grandpa-in-law about a year ago after soley taking care of him for two years and so I know how painful that can be. We loved him very much. It really stinks to lose someone that you care about so much. Over time you will feel alot of different things so don't be suprised if you are sad one day and angry the next day and then happy again. It takes time to get over those feelings.
Keep talking to your parents!!!!!! Tell them how you feel, especially when you are sad. Try to remember the good things about him and the fun you had when he was here. Take care and give your mom and dad a hug from me.
Jade
i just got off the phone with cruzanheart.
she told me about someone i knew that passed away.
i don't remember her very well, but i remember she was very nice and very humble.
((((Jesika)))))
I think going to the gravesite would give you some closure and thats a good thing. It's private and you can say your goodbyes. As far as going to the current funeral service I would think twice about what you will face. Like Big Tex said, you probably will not be welcome and you WILL be shunned. If you can handle that, then more power to you. I for one, don't put myself in those situations because it hurts my feelings to be treated that way and I refuse to let them do that to me.
Take care
Jade
i feel like i know some of you since i have been lurking here for almost two years, yikes!.
let me introduce myself.
i go by goofy here, you know the disney character, always liked him.
((((((Goofy))))))
I'm glad you let us know you are here. I enjoyed your post. Hope you will find the happiness you are looking for.
Jade
it's official.
i just registered for the suzuki rock and roll marathon in san diego on june 1.
26.2 miles of torture.
Princess,
That is so cool. My husband runs and a couple of years of ago he ran two marathons within 4 weeks of each other. I only ran the 10k. If anyone here enjoys running, but can't handle the pain of a marathon like myself, it's still fun to support the runners. I've worked at the water stations and the fruit stations and cheered them on.
The worst thing that he had happen was on the second marathon he ran, he ended up with stress fractures at about mile 20. He still finished but he paid for it dearly.
Good luck to you!!!!!!
sorry friends to report, my husband and i are divorcing.
he could not handle me saying i will never go back to the truth.
he is not ready to face all the crap from growing up a jw.
(((((((Scooby)))))))
I'm so sorry to hear things can't be worked out. My leaving the borg also lead to my divorce several years ago. Just know that it does get better and there are people here for you to lean on. I hope you will find the happiness that your want and deserve. Take care.
Jade
do you generally have things made for you, things set and life generally go your way?
or is everything is a battle and a major fight for survival?
just curious.
Basically pretty happy: I have a good husband, great kid, great brother & sister & dad.
.....just too hectic though. Not enough hours in the day for all the things I want to do.
Jade
i just thought this might be of interest to some of the parents here on the board who have left the borg,when their children also were raised in it......my youngest son, is the spiritual one of my 3 kids, i mean he wants to know what jesus was like as a boy, if he was a boy in heaven, why did god put satan down here with us, etc.
etc.. as many of you know, our whole family left the borg, a little over a year ago.
my oldest son was glad and still deals with his own spirituality, he is your typical teen, interesting in other things not spiritual.
Dede,
My son was five when I left the borg. It has been a slow eight-year process trying to undo what I did for the first five years of his life. I feel so terrible about that. The first time I started introducing him to holidays, he cried because he thought it was wrong. But time has healed alot of that. He now sees that there are other paths besides the JW's and the biggest impact has been making sure he has lots of friends outside of the borg. Hope all goes well for you and your family.
Annie