My NAME IS OF NO CONSEQUENCE- Very interesting. Sounds like your wife is having " cracks in her spiritual armor " lol - good for her, seems like she's gradually waking up to reality. You are playing it smart. Don't give her too much, too soon. You're handling it well and I agree with Desirous of Change, don't push as it can cause her cult triggers and phobias to kick in, but honestly answer her questions if she asks your opinion - just be diplomatic in choosing your words carefully while respecting the fact that she's probably really sad and hurting inside within herself that the WT organization lied to her for years.
You are doing well . Keep the good work up buddy. Keep us posted man