Virgochik

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  Talking to a DF'd sister...

  by SoBizzy in

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  i am not df'd and have not da'd, just faded the last six years - anyway i was remembering a time when i was about 18 or 19 and a very good friend that i had grown up with was df'd for fornication - well she was finally coming back to the hall to get reinstated and i hadn't seen or spoken to her for more than a year - so when she showed up at the hall one night i told my mom i was going to say hi!

  remember, she was still df'd - my mom said i shouldn't and i told her i don't care - i had missed my friend and wanted to just say hi!

  i said to my friend - "i just wanted to say that i missed you and happy to see you back!

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  Virgochik

  You showed more love and kindness than the whole Hall-full of unChristians! Silly tho, you talk to her, and it's her fault?
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  Really bummed out!!

  by crazyblondeb in

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  i'm just really venting here!!

  some of you know work has been a bit slow!

  i work for a company that makes parts for 3m.

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  Virgochik

  So sorry, Shelly. Is it a permanent layoff, or might you be called back after the holidays? Can you afford a couple weeks rest, then look around?
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  Comments You Will Not Hear at the 11-5-06 WT Study (COURAGEOUS FAITH FEAR)

  by blondie in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  "be courageous and strong ... jehovah your god is with you.

  be courageous and strong.

  " (joshua 1:8, 9) because joshua listened to god, he proved to be courageous, strong, and successful.

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  Virgochik

  Blondie, sorry this is off topic, but what's hashbrown/cheese casserole? That sounds delicious, and I'll bet you could be coaxed to share a recipe!
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  Sheesh, you buy one gram of Crystal Meth...

  by SixofNine in

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  ... from a male prostitute who gives great backrubs, and suddenly you're not qualified to represent jesus and the so-called conservative party anymore.

  where is the love?

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  Well, I am not judging him for having gay sex, more power to him. But, what about the pain he's brought his wife and kids, and the church people who trusted him to not deceive them, to tell them the truth, and to actually live the life he preached! You know, walk the talk.

  He also did lots of damage to gay people's rights, and indirectly to their families, locally. Every time a vote came up to just let gay families have what everyone else has, he was loud and obnoxious in campaigning against it. He has hurt a lot of good people by hamming up the gay tirades, so nobody will ever guess. That's what makes me angry; his selfishness and maybe, cowardice. If he's gay, or bisexual, just be honest about it. This past week, Rev. Benjamin Reynolds of possibly the largest black church in Colorado Springs, at 1 S. Walnut St., came out to his congregation as a gay man. Many couldn't handle it, so he's looking for a new church where he can serve and do good for the community. No games, no lies, and no harming innocent people by exaggerated disdain for gays to cover his own ass.

  That's just not right.
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  1st Christmas: Gift ideas for wife?

  by Little Drummer Boy in

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  2. family

  ooookay,.

  first of all, exwitless, don't read this thread!.

  shoo!.

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  Virgochik

  Well, I was gonna suggest jewelry, cuz a girl never refuses a pretty ring but, if you think not...how about browsing on Ebay? Even if you don't find "the gift" you might be prompted with some ideas! Have fun!
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  Sheesh, you buy one gram of Crystal Meth...

  by SixofNine in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ... from a male prostitute who gives great backrubs, and suddenly you're not qualified to represent jesus and the so-called conservative party anymore.

  where is the love?

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  This is the front page story in Colorado Springs, and all over the evening news. He was seen fleeing his home with the wifey and 3 kids with him in the car, pursued by the TV news vans. All looked Haggard. Funny thing is, at first he denied everything. Now, some of it is true. What's to be revealed tomorrow, all of it is true?? He lives in a posh gated community in the Briargate area of northern Colo. Springs, very pricey. Maybe he'll get a sweet severance check, and become a pastor with Metropolitan Community Church.
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  IS/ WAS YOUR CONGREGATION LIKE MY CURRENT ONE?

  by enlightenedcynic in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  in the congregation i currently attend with my die-hard witness wife and my two kids, the p.o.

  is a lame duck elder whom no one really respects or goes to for any counsel, advice, etc.

  another elder(lives at bethel) has taken to flirting with a local sister who is seperated but not divorced from her husband.

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  Virgochik

  In our Hall, and this was twenty years ago, we had:

  1) Late 30's, married Ministerial Servant sleeping with 15 year old sister, both reproved

  2) Late 50's married elder, whose wife refused to have sex, sleeping with his study's wife. Elder disfellowshipped, whole congregation gossiping about it, and his life ruined. Study couple quits coming to meetings.

  3) Elder's family has 2 teenage boys, and a toddler. They hire teenage sister to babysit the little girl after school. Surprise! Blond sister is found in bed with one of the black teenage sons. Who was so blind as to not see the attraction to one another? Both reproved, neither is reinstated and "fall away."

  4) Elder runs away with MS's wife, they get an apartment in another town. They get married. MS begins dating elder's ex-wife.

  5) Elder's dissatisfied, neglected and pretty wife divorces him, and marries her boyfriend, a lawyer. Congregation is stunned! When did she meet him? Many gossip about how it's not surprising because elder worked 16 hour shifts at his job, then was always doing elder duties. She felt unloved and found someone else who spoiled her with attention. She was disfellowshipped, but do ya think she gave a rat's fanny?
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  Do you get stressed talking to JWs?

  by jwfacts in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am a salesman, so will talk to anyone, anytime without fear.

  but for some reason, everytime i need to speak to a jw i get a huge rush of nerves.. i also am an accountant and do tax returns, and this year lost most of my jw clients.

  some went to another accountant in the congregation.

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  Virgochik

  Sure, they miss you at the meetings, misspeaches....and just as surely, if you went back, they'd ignore you!
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  New Tracts fill Recycling bins

  by Lilycurly in

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  i thought the jws would never visit my appartement bloc...but they finally did.. i came home yesterday night to find one of the new tract folded a few times and inside my mailbox.

  i was really excited of course, but a bit dissapointed that i wasn't there to get it directly from them.

  i looked around the other boxes, and it seems like the dubs just left one to everyone without even trying to knock.

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  Virgochik

  We got ours yesterday, Nov.1. Hubby tossed it on the kitchen counter and grinned, "here's something to get you riled up, Virgochik!" I was gonna write, Watchtower, this is YOU! where it says false religion tolerates pedophiles, and mail it to Crooklyn. But too late, he'd tossed it in the trash! I can't imagine why. There it lies, beneath the coffee grounds.
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  Prince is setting up shop in Vegas!

  by Atlantis in

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  http://www.chartattack.com/damn/2006/11/0202.cfm prince is setting up shop in vegas .

  thursday november 02, 2006 @ 06:30 pm.

  by: chartattack.com staff.

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  Virgochik

  Maybe there's been new light on gambling? Lots of my parents pals have gone to Vegas, "just to see the shows." Maybe the bookies can lay odds on when Armageddon's coming.