Dragonlady76

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  My Story "this is long, I'm sorry"

  by ex-nj-jw in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i'm not sure i ever really posted my story.

  i think i've given bit's and pieces on others threads but not the whole thing on my own thread.

  the issue that another member is having with childcare and yet another poster asking me why i'm still here after being out for 24 years has prompted me to type this up.. so here goes:.

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  WTF were your parents thinking!

  Sorry for the outburst but that really sucks ass.
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  With a heavy heart I regret to inform you that..

  by Wordly Andre in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i regret to inform, all of you that i will no longer be a member of this board, ive thought about it a long time and to hard decision that after many hours of praying i will be returning to the society.

  i know its the only way i can confront the problem that i am currently faced with, i am sure all of you at one time thought about it too, i am however weak, i know that going back will only delay matters and keep this horrible secret of mine, but its the only way i know how i can deal with it.

  thank you for all your support and for me to fully get back to jehovahs organization i can not be a member of this board thank you worldly andre

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  Dragonlady76

  You dumb a**!
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  Why don't Witnesses indentify themselves at the door when in service?

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my 17 year old daughter told me 2 men were at the door saturday looking for adults that lived in the house.my wife and i were out of town for 2 days.they had suits on and carrying book bags.

  they asked if she was over 18. she replied that she wasn't.

  they left without indentifiying themselves.

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  Dragonlady76

  they were probably ashamed, I'm sure they'd rather be selling Avon or something

  LMAO!
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  I need help, friendly suggestions, or a shoulder to cry on...

  by FreedomFrog in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ok, here's the situation.. i have no friends that live close to me and i'm up to my eyeballs in bills.

  i have applied to a few jobs that could potentially help me turn things around.

  the things is, because i don't have parents/friends or any other people in my life.... 1. how do i get a babysitter when i have to go on the interviews?.

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  Dragonlady76

  Try using craigslist, there is a community area and you can post your needs, there are folks out there willing to help out.
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  do i go with my gut instinct???(long, im sorry, but i need help)

  by theinfamousone in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so, simply put, i am in love... and love makes a man do some really stupid things.... love makes a pretty damn intelligent man feel pretty damn stupid quite often as well... so here's my story... i have been dating this girl for almost a year now... she is beautiful, sweet, and really just everything i imagined in a life mate... she lives with me... she doesnt work, while i do full time, and also go to school... i make very good money, so that does not bother me... but heres where it all begins... a few months ago, she went to cuba with her sisters, and imoved her into my place while she was gone, her idea, not mine.. now we keep our condoms in a certain place.... anyways, her box of condoms was gone, with her... when she comes back, our little box of condoms is empty.... instead of asking her about it, i explained it to myself as she must have given them to her sister.... .

  while i am gone at work, i usually give her a call on my breaks... i notice that she never answers the phone between 6-8 pm.. home or cell... her explanation is that she is always in the shower... the problem with that is that she is always coming out of the shower when i get home.... i get home at around nine... so either she is taking a 3 hour shower or she is taking two showers a night..... she disappears off the face of the earth everytime she goes home to visit her family... like shes not home, shes not answering her phone and only ever calls me when she is in her car....her explanation is that she is at a cousins house.. conveniently, one that i do not know..... last night she went to a wedding... it was over at 11, i know this because she had told me, nd a friend of mine tht was there said that it ended then,,, it was a dry wedding, no dancing... very religious people... i was supposed to meet her at 130 today, i got to the train station that she was coming to, 15 minutes early and waited over an hour there... finally as i decied to walk back home, she gives me a call... i will be home at 5, meet me at the train.... of course, i have been calling her since last night at 11 to tell her i would meet her at 130 as she had planned... i made brunch for her, which is now in the garbage... i was scared shitless she had been hit by a car or dead since her phone has been off since last night.... i asked her why she is so late, i was helping move things until 3am last night... bull shit.. all the gifts were given prior to the weding and the bride and groom had already moved into their new place.... i know because she has told me in the past.....her phone was dead according to her... but all of the sudden, she is able to use it.... no charger, but she can use it..... i did confront her once, and she exploded on me!!!!

  like screamed and screamed and said she was insulted i even asked... textbook defensive behaviour right????.

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  Dragonlady76

  Please stop ignoring your gut instinct, it's trying to help you.

  Tell her that you deserve trust, respect and honesty in this relationship, if she cannot offer you that then move on.

  Sorry
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  my story part 2: in the grips of missanna

  by bigdreaux in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  as per request, here is the story of bigdreaux and misanna's courtship.

  hope you enjoy.

  as i sat watching busload after busload of my fellow neighbors, flowing into the rest area, the reality of what was actually happening hit me.

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  Dragonlady76

  Awwww
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  SALUDOS DESDE ESPAÑA

  by odnanref in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hola,.

  os envio saludos desde espana.

  os invito a visitar mi pagina: http://www.fcc.org.es .. un saludo.

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  Dragonlady76

  HOLA,

  OS ENVIO SALUDOS DESDE ESPAÑA. OS INVITO A VISITAR MI PAGINA: http://www.fcc.org.es .

  UN SALUDO

  FERNANDO

  Gracias por el link, es importante que el mensaje se pueda dar en espanol.

  Una pregunta, tiene usted una idea de cuantos apostatas de habla espanol se encuantran en Espana o latino America?
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  my story

  by bigdreaux in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well, i guess it's time for me to write the story of how i ended up here.. i was born in 1976 in new orleans.

  i was raised in the organazation.

  i never knew any different.

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  Dragonlady76

  BigD,

  Thanks for sharing your story with us.
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  Mental Illness - diagnosed for me

  by Crumpet in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i've long known, and most of you probably have as well, that there was something not all there with me.

  mostly i put it down to me being bad.

  questions i've never been asked before.

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  crumpet,

  Dragonlady's husband speaking here, read your post, and I'm bipolar and wanted to reach out:

  its not easy. medicines can have their side effects. you'll miss your "highs", you'll even miss your depressive epidosodes because that's what you grew to know. you'll have to get to know your "new" self.

  stick to your meds. expect to have some side effects. talk to you doctor about how things are going for you (how you're sleeping, appetite, energy level, productivity at school or work, relationships, etc...) they'll probably experiment with your meds, different dosages and types. don't get discouraged. you'll be glad to be off your roller coaster. you'll feel a sense of calm you never knew. don't just "quit" your meds.

  i also recommend seeing a counselor. usually, bipolar people have developed some "sloppy psychological" habits that can lead to depression, anxiety, etc... its necessary to break those.

  its not your fault, it should not have a stigma. its a chemical imbalance, like diabetes or any other physical thing. take your meds, try to see a counselor, be healthy (get your sleep, eat right, get exercise, have healthy hobbies).

  good luck and God bless...
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  JWs... That's not "MEAT JUICE" that you're eating !

  by AlphaOmega in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  a while ago i had a discussion with a jw who swung the conversation around to "the blood issue"... .

  i asked him that as he "abstained from blood", does he therefore only eat "kosher meat".. his response was "what's does kosher mean" !.

  i explained, and he then told me that all meat nowadays was "kosher", and that the red juice that runs from a steak is infact "meat juice" and not blood, so it was okay to eat.. hmmmmmn.... .

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  Here, I thought this thread about "MEAT JUICE" was going to refer to something else.

  Min, You need a cold shower.