I visited the Philippines in 1998- a HS friend of mine was working for a company over there- engineer on some industrial project and he invited me to hook up with him for a 10 days. I met many American men at the hotels/resort who were in town meeting girls for marriage. I found it flattering at first to have 20-25 year old girls wanting my attention, but I couldn't relate to them. They brought nothing to a relationship except baby making and 100 cousins who wanted $$ help. I did meet two americans at the airport who had retired to the PI with their native wives- yes, a big age difference, but it was socially acceptable in their society. One man's wife was a doctor- his pension was more than her income- they had a modest home ( by our standards) and a cook/housekeeper. The beaches were very nice- floating tiki bars, too.
I am 5 years older than my wife-- I am glad it is no more. We have the same interests in music and our life experiences are similar- we both remember Kennedy's assasination.