Welcome MIssanna.
It's nice to have you with us.
You will get a lot of great advice. I look forward to reading your thoughts about the various topics.
Good luck.
TheListener
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Hi
by Missanna inhey i just joined here i have finally got up the courage to start doing research for myself since i've left the "truth" just wanted to introduce myself and say hi.
my name is anna and i got out of the org.
almost a year ago.
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Hi Everyone I'm new here
by debilee inhello everyone, my name is debi.
dfd for 2 weeks.
i don't know if i'll fit in here but i would like to give it a try.
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TheListener
Welcome Debilee. I am glad you signed up.
You will get a lot of good advice here. It's so nice to have a listening ear that understands exactly what you've gone through.
Stay strong and I wish you the best of luck. I would love to hear more of your story.
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I heard a term describes disfellowshipping to a "T"
by JeffT ini can't find the exact quote (i'll keep looking) but charles swindoll said of church discipline "we're the only outfit i know of that shoots its own wounded.
i think that is a very apt way to say what jw's do.
about twenty years ago a relative was diagnosed as bipolar.
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TheListener
I absolutely love that. I will definitely be using that with my wife.
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Watchtower to Sell 6 Brooklyn Heights Properties
by DannyHaszard inwatchtower to sell 6 brooklyn heights properties.
brooklyn daily eagle, ny -7 minutes ago.
... residential and all in brooklyn heights, according to david semonian, a spokesperson for the watchtower society, also known as the jehovahs witnesses.
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TheListener
So this one time I was staying at 34 Orange and this horrible pee smell started coming from the air conditioner....
I'm glad the powers that be are getting out of Brooklyn. I want them to appear more cultish to those that are unfamiliar with them. A farm or compound in New Jersey or New York State looks and sounds more cultic that many clean buildings in Brooklyn Heights.
I had too much to drink It's not relevant to anyone but me.
I also have all of my bethel paperwork. Including several (and different versions) copies of Dwelling In Unity and phone listings. If it would help expose the WT I'm sure my sober self could find a way to get copies to other people.
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I'm going to be disfellowshipped on Wednesday
by Thinking of Leaving inthe elders cames to my home on saturday and i didn't answer the door, so they told my sister to relay the message.
the message was "you know what it's about, we're going to make the announcement next meeting".
i knew it was coming...but it feels so weird.
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TheListener
Congratulations Thinking. It's like taking off a band-aid. One fell swoop and it's over.
Me?, I'm fading and it's like slowly taking off a large piece of duct tape.
Seriously, you are to be commended for sticking up for yourself and not attending their kangaroo court proceedings.
I'm glad you found this board and that you found it so helpful.
I would never have been able to complete my fade if I hadn't found this board.
Good luck on your future.
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The serious conversation with the wife about the cult- part 2
by OnTheWayOut inthe book study overseer hasn't asked why i won't come to the bookstudy, he gets .
be the month i stopped going to the k.h.
not going this week than it was about missing other meetings.. i told her that i would not be going to the meetings at all anymore.
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TheListener
Sounds really good OTWO!!
No more meetings!!!!
I remember my very same discussion with my wife when I had finally had enough of the meetings.
It feels good not to go.
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DF for celebrating Birthdays??
by lrkr inhas anyone ever heard of someone being dfd for celebrating their or their childrens birthday???.
(my first post- took a lot to work up the courage- i'll tell more details later).
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TheListener
Hi lrkr.
Depending on what outcome you want to achieve you will need to choose your words wisely.
From your post I'm assuming you must attend meetings regularly enough for your 8 year old to communicate with his/her friends at the hall? Or perhaps a witness relative.
If it's a foregone conclusion that you celebrated and you can't/won't lie your way out of that then your best bet is to feign ignorance and repentance.
It doesn't happen often but, yes, they can disfellowship you for celebrating a birthday - it's a false religious practice - to them.
Don't argue scriptures with them. They won't believe you, listen to you or learn from your wisdom. That is unless your face is the shape of a WT, then they'll listen to whatever craziness you speak.
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I went to the Memorial.
by RichieRich ini'm just going to start at the beginning.. i was anticipating the memorial all day.
i was nervous but excited, kind of like standing in line for a roller coaster.. ok. so erika gets ready at her house, and i get ready at mine.
i'm wearing a black suit with a light green shirt, and a tie that had hues of green and yellow in it.
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TheListener
Well done Richie. Well done indeed.
I especially enjoyed this little phrase:
holy spirit powered flashlights
So true.
Your mother needs to feel the effects of her shunning. Perhaps feeling the effects and seeing its consequences will one day help her to break free.
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The Tower of Babel... What's up with that?
by LtCmd.Lore inseriously,,, what was gods problem?
the story of babel bothered me for quite a while.
after all, satan made a few challenges right?
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TheListener
I just re-read that entire thread and it was really good. I do highly recommend it.
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The Tower of Babel... What's up with that?
by LtCmd.Lore inseriously,,, what was gods problem?
the story of babel bothered me for quite a while.
after all, satan made a few challenges right?
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TheListener
We discussed Nimrod in a thread about 9 months ago. It's an interesting read. Well, it is to me anyway.