Hi foreverjw welcome to JWD,
ask yourself if you want true unconditonal love
Think about what this really means, ever watch tv talk shows and parents talk about loving there kids.The parents hate the things their kids are doing, but they are there for them and continue to love them no matter what.
Now think about the WT and their shunning policy, I'm sorry but that is conditional love, if you don't meet the WT's conditions you will not be loved.
I remember talks that told bros and sis to seek out the friendship of those who were strong spiritually
to build yourself up. This used to piss me off because it basicly means elders MS pioneer good friends,
publishers ok friends on sliding scale according to field service hours, irregular and inactive BAD FRIENDS.
Great encouragement to start even more clicks in the cong.