Hi frobisher, welcome to the board...
In my opinion... I don't think you can make sweeping generalisations about the people on here like 'united by hatred'.... whilst there is definitely an element of hatred on this site, if you look into the backgrounds (of the people that have shared them) of those that are openly critical of the WTBTS, you would understand their positions more. Hatred works for some, as it's a means to channel energy - for me... I'm not wasting any more of my life devoting time for anything to with the organisation, serving or hating!
There is also a hell of a lot of healing on this site - having 'down' days or sharing sob stories doesn't mean you are making yourself a victim or whining!! Knowing that there are people who understand and empathise with you is a big help. And as you know, no-one here is afraid of letting you know what they think, so it can be a real kick up the virtual butt when needed!
Is it wrong for the hated apostates to hate the organisation ??? How much time is devoted by the organsiation to 'hating' the apostates, making mention of them in books, magazines, leaflets, at meetings, at assemblies ? Aren't they surely in the same league of 'united by hatred'??
Bull!