The first most important thing for me was being able to appreciate other people's thoughts and beliefs and actually learning from the diversity of thoughts and beliefs as opposed to thinking I had the only 'truth'.
Music is my life and knowing that it is perfectly acceptable to live breath and eat music instead of being told it is 'just a hobby' to be persued later in the fantasy land 'new system'.
Realizing that each day, each hour and each and ever minute of the day is a gift to be used as best as we can and to live in the moment and not for a fantasy (again....fantasy new system). I appreciate each day I awaken anew!
My children, all grown, are so very important to me and with a new grandchild due in November the family tree enlarges and is even more precious.
Other things like a beautiful sunrise or sunset, a nature hike, a bike ride on a great bike trail, my beloved doggie, taking aforementioned doggie on walks in the neighborhood and appreciating the yards and gardens and holiday decorations of my neighbors and the smiles and greetings of other walkers.
Last but not least, MY STUDENTS! In passing along my love for the violin and hearing both the young students and older ones finding joy in this instrument makes me feel like I am fulfilling my major purpose in life........passing along the gift of music.....and so my second comment ties in with my ending comment. I am also finding a lot of joy playing in a community symphony. It challenges my aging brain and after rehearsals a lot of us meet up at a pub for good drink, food and company! It's all good!