Gumby,
Both my wife and I are Christians (trying not to use"born again") and what the bible teaches as far as husband/wife relationship hinges on the positional aspect of man/wife. I, in no way feel I am "better" than her, in fact I am nothing without her. I feel this ties in with Christ' relation to the father while he was on earth, a positional reference to the father as being "greater than I." Not better than or more important.
But this is not the case from what I see in my mothers house. Sometimes I feel like giving elder bob the ole "nose in the book treatment" from "Yosemite Sam" cartoon.