I also told her I would make time at night for us to read from the bible together. (I would love some suggestions on how to do this to maximize the effectiveness. I have some ideas but am open to suggestions.) She said she would like to pray together too.
ITIS,
PLEASE do this! Pray together everyday, as often as she wants. Pray for just little things...thanking God for the walk in the park, the quiet time the kids let you have, etc. Being openly and vocally thankful during this period may take some of the sting out of the pain. Let her pray too. (I know it might be uncomfortable for her as a sister, but if it makes her feel better, let her wear a hat.) It will make her feel like you're in this together. And as you can probably tell, she desperately needs to feel security in that right now.
As for studying the bible...it seems like she enjoys research and dates. Pick a bible book (Pauline letters are good for this) and read it. Research the time frame, culture, history of the locations, congregations, etc as you go along. It might make it fun for her. I have to tell you that reading Romans, Galatians, and Ephesians opened my eyes WIDE to the organization's BS. I don't know if you've read those books without the help of the Watchtower, but it's very plain: Jesus is the mediator...not mankind. Salvation is based on grace, not works, not hours in field service, meetings, etc. It blew the lid off the can for me! I realize now that I can never go back...they DON'T have the Truth. But it took reading the Word for what it was - without their help.
Andi *doing a happy dance for you*