Mulan, thanks... Funny, "go with the flow" is one of my favorite expressions. Taking my own advice is never as easy as giving it, heh. Thanks :)
Aude, good advice. Now to carry it through. Not sure the housewarming party would happen. Have no real family left here, and, heh... would you believe, no friends.
Cyber and Aude, to answer both your questions, I am recently separated from my wife of almost 5 years. I came over to the States from England in 2001 alone, just to marry Tammy. My whole life has revolved around Tammy and my step-kids and work for the past 5 years, too busy being the family guy I guess. Divorce is pretty much on the cards. I will probably end up moving back to England in a few years once my bankruptcy is paid off.
*Edited to add* Prophecor... sounds like you've got your head screwed on. I can only hope I have your self-worth after a week of this.