You're correct. Those of us not in attendence, but have read what has been posted by others "there."
I'm so very sorry for you, Princess, and anyone else that was so deeply offended by what apparently happened just by trying to sort through all these postings. But, could not the same be said of yourself and those that came to your defense...it's all heresay for those of us "not in attendence." And some "in attendence" made mention that all the nasty stuff that took place really did not effect the overall wonderful time had by all....
Anytime you entertain with alcohol...expect that the worst might just (unfortunetly) happen. Hey, I'm glad you really aren't "wordly enough."
Don't think that everyone reading through this thread is going to take sides...either way. And if I sounded as though I'm taking sides...well, perhaps you do remember to thank your "lucky" stars each day that you and others have not had to go through the same emotional, mental and physical battering as others have before they reached the point of "of my gawd...I'm a fuck up."
Sincerely,
Granny Linda