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My point is that you can be a Virgin and still know what to do. Its all about knowledge.
Yeah, and I can say I know about parachuting as I've read about it and seen it done. Doesn't mean I'm GOOD at it. I think a lot of guys like the idea of a virgin as a virgin hasn't got anything to compare their first intercourse with... well, except masturbation, and most women's first experience of sex is less satisfying than masturbation...
And doing it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over.............
... means you get quite good at it? I don't see any connection between morals and a high number of sex partrners. It's quite possible to have screwed a hundred people and never to have lied orcheated on one, just as it's possible to have five sexual partners and to have lied to and cheated every single one.
As for theories advanced about sex without romance means sex without effort. Yeah, well, a guy like that will only get laid once by each women. AND WORD GETS AROUND. There's a guy in Exeter I know who is famous for being hung like a donkey AND for being an inept, clueless lover (at least amongst a circle of about a hundred people I know).
Personally speaking I've had a couple of very satisfactory sex-for-fun relationships with no pretense of romance on either side but plenty of sexual chemistry. But as with most things in life, you can't take away more than you bring, can you? Lazy lovers (don't get) suck.
I also think that some women still approach sex like they are a different species as distinct from a different gender.
Most women I have known have been as sexual as most guys I have known. DIFFERENT, yes, but in extent? No difference. It's just more socially acceptable to be a "stud" than a "slut" (don't the words tell us a lot about society?), even though they do the same thing. This means women with a healthy interest in and attitude toward sex tend to keep quiet about it, as they just get unfairly judged if they have an active and liberated sex life.
These are the women who tend to be the best in bed, by the way.