I remember an elder questioning a woman who had admitted to giving and receiving oral sex from her unbelieving mate. He asked her the most intimate questions which clearly flustered her.
Interestingly, she “confessed “ to the elders because her conscience bothered her. At the time, doing such a dastardly act was a disfellowshipping offense.
I was a brand new elder and mercifully, an older elder Stifled the questioner and she was “only” given private reproof.🙄