Great answer, steve and others haha!
I think skepsis is Male? @steve2
Just realized you're a brother
Grow a beard
Or the skirt thing
I recall how difficult it was when I started to wake up and I was pushed to do a cart service. I often looked desperately for some excuses to avoid it... I am so happy to be DA'd now.
That pressure during the first phases of leaving the WT / fading is enormous.
Pretty hard if you want to stay an MS
Your going to have to tip your hand at some point
It's hard to get the order of events exactly to your liking
Successful faders usually have excuses such as work
For missing meetings etc
It's hard to be thought of as a weak pub if you're an MS
Seems to me me you're going to have to face the music with family
and elders sometimes
You might want to start thinking about avoidance tactics
The local congregation had a display at a recent street fair. People came from miles around for the music, the sausage sandwiches, the art exhibits and just to wander around. The brother looked so pathetic.