Gosh...............hate to see you go away mad. Or even just go away.
As you said, this is a great place for healing.
I think most JWs are immature or stunted socially. I think we were all "protected" by the false conditional friendships that we failed to become accustomed to the "harsh real world" out there. I think you got your feelings hurt. So what. Big deal. But as a JW, we all thought the Big J was gonna make it all "OK". Then when we left, we thought everybody else was gonna be "fair" all the time? WTF?
I've been abused a couple times on here. Probably deserved it.
I've said some things that I should have "edited" but couldn't because I waited too long.
Eden, you seem like a young guy (?). (Gin blurs the recollection.)
Just get over it. If no one is bleeding, just get over it.
I didn't read the offensive post and I don't think I will. Just would rather see you take "the high road" and don't let assholes determine what YOU are going to do here (or elsewhere in life). If you get mad and "take your ball & jacks and go home" every time someone hurts your feelings, you're in for a miserable life.
Good luck. Hope you decide to hang around. The rest of us aren't all assholes. (Well, OK. I probably am, but most people here don't seem to be.)