Bonezz, I really hope it all works out for you. My heart breaks every time I hear of another shunning story. It is such an unloving practice and it really is a way of bullying a person. As much as the news media has come out against this you would think there would be more stories of what they are doing inside these cults to contol the people. I look forward to hearing how this comes out. If I were in your position I know I would feel so desperate and want to do the same thing. You want to shake them to their senses.