" Bullies prey on loners and part of bullying is making the victim feel like everyone is against him."
"What if the brother who sent his kids to college got together with the brother who talks to his disfellowshipped son and the brother who barely goes out in service and just had a good time talking about anything and everything except for the religion? "
they, the ones taking the lead won't allow this to happen, ever! they purposely make the service groups to keep independant thinkers separated.
They love bomb certain individuals and ignore others to separate them. I have seen it with my very eyes and witnessed it first hand, the controllers splitting up fellowship of like-minded individuals. They will drive a wedge between husband/wife, parent/child if they have to . Anything to keep control.
like I said before a classic example of workplace/religious bullying