No one else defines you. People say that here, and different people say that about any kind of person on here. What are you going to do?
Well, start this thread, I guess. But I hope you're not letting the comparison get to you too much.
The "I am right and everyone else is wrong" is an attitude that is not limited to JW's, ex-jw's, fundamentalists, teenagers, etc. (Nor is the 'sister attitude' that there is something wrong with everyone who can't see the truth or reality of what you see) It is just reminiscent of their same attitude, and since jw is the shared background of this board, then that is the comparison that will get used the most, if people are attempting to show a comparison. Now if someone who was never a jw said that to discredit someone's opinion, I would personally find that much more of a cheap shot.