Mankeli...I wish I could get back the 30 minutes of life I wasted trying to read and understand your point. If anyone needs someone else to tell them what to do to be happy and to valiate there decisions they are already lost and they will never be truly happy no matter how much they tell themselves they are. It's funny to me that if people can't do something themselves they have to try and prevent others from doing what they want. Seems to me you are looking for a flock to control. Good luck with that.