"They will expel you from their synagogues"...
You can "expel" yourselves, of course, dear Igot2 and Anony (peace to you, both, and KUDOS for your courage!)... or you can let them do it. Me? I wouldn't make ANYTHING easy for them. If you do it yourselves, you let these elders off the hook - nothing more for them to think about ("Hey, he doesn't wanna be a part of us any more"). If you let THEM do, however... they will HAVE to think about it. Indeed, there will be at least one meeting about it. One or both of those who visited you will HAVE to think about what you shared with them. That may be to your credit; who knows whether something you said didn't actually "sound down" in them? Perhaps you planted a seed... and the process they must go through will further "water" it (especially if any of them decided to "research" some of what you stated/asked).
So, again, I would NOT make it easy for them. If my staying only to be DF'd gave them even minimal pause to think on what I shared with them... then it's worth the delay and ultimate demise, IMHO. Of course, in the end, it's your choice: you both must do what YOU feel you must.
Again, peace to you... and may JAH bless and give you strength... through Christ... whatever you choose to do.
A slave of Christ,
SA