I think I found DJEggNog. It's my father! I've been having long discussions over e-mail over the last few days. Here are some great tidbits:
"I am a psychiatric social worker and that means that me, yes me can also look far beyond the issues"
"In Belgium Pedophiles can no longer come into consideration for prayer or any task - isn't that better new light?"
"Is there one thing that brings people closer to God? Are you just one time reminded of the good things the organisation has done? Who has uncovered the lies and thought us what cleanliness means and how to stand up for our beliefs in war regardless of persecution?" it goes on and on about the things the organization teaches us and that opposers don't teach us.
"I want to answer your questions but I would like to know first why you feel hurt about the organisation"
"Stop searching for faults in the organisation, all pieces in the organizational chain are human"
"Humble yourself under the mighty hand of Jehovah"
"Jehovah will continue leading us through an organisation that is human and makes mistakes and if we continue doing that in this system of things he will use the organization to lead us through Armageddon"