TERRY- You did a hell of a job explaining things to this JW clone . Don't berate yourself or put yourself down for what you DIDN'T say ! Believe me- what you DID say will resonate in this JW guy's brain for a long, long time. You were able to inform him that unjust decisions and rulings happen in the JW organization- and that was fantastic !
I did something similar to a JW I knew 8 years ago . He said he had heard I'd been DFed. I said " No. You heard wrong. " Then I explained to him how I fought my JC and won my appeal of my DFing. Ad how my daughters shun me, etc. etc. So many times we can really help these JW's by informing them and giving them access to information about unjust rulings by elders and WT higher ups . You know they won't hear about the negative INSIDE the organization - so I felt you showed great courage to speak up. Job well done my friend