Strange, Offensive , Weird Statements on DFing Offenses in Elders Manual

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  • Botzwana
    Botzwana

    Farkel, Please explain more! This is the FIRST time I have ever heard that fornication and adultery don't mean what I have previously thought them to mean. A Biblical example I think of is Phineas...Didn't he bang a moabite woman and was killed for it?

    I did wonder about animals though .Since Jehovah created everything WHY is ok for monkeys to do each other in the butt and for other animals to have multiple partners yet humans are the only ones who are going to die at A if we do such things...Why isn't God punishing the animals too?

  • Vidiot
    Vidiot

    Farkel – “Quite pedantic. Please let me rephrase: Without the Fall in Eden, a religious conservative is left with a huge pile of bullshit to explain. Thank you.”

    Sorry. Just tryin’ to be tactful. You’re welcome. :D

    flipper – “I believe the GB member Ray Franz was referring to that said they "couldn't allow the brothers and sisters too much rope or they'd take advantage " was Ted Jaracz. He REALLY mistrusted everybody, probably even himself, though he wouldn't admit it.”

    Everything I’ve read about the guy suggests he was what Bob Altemeyer (http://home.cc.umanitoba.ca/~altemey/) calls a “Double High”; a devout, ultra-conservative religious individual (they’re almost exclusively male, BTW) who combines the characteristics of high Right-Wing authoritarianism and “Social Dominance” orientation. Combine that with potentially deep self-loathing (I’ve heard rumors – rumors, mind you – that he was briefly accused of some form of alleged sexual assault) and the type of persecution complex common to most fundagelical Christian denominations, and you have a recipe for full-on religious paranoia.

    Fun, huh?

    flipper – “The Adam & Eve story instills a guilt and fear into MOST conservative religions and their people so it pushes a negativity hard to overcome.”

    Yeah, thank the Apostle Paul and Augustine of Hippo for that one. Ironically, I think I recall the WT once labeling Augustine an “apostate”.

    Botswana – “Farkel, Please explain more! This is the FIRST time I have ever heard that fornication and adultery don't mean what I have previously thought them to mean. A Biblical example I think of is Phineas...Didn't he bang a moabite woman and was killed for it?”

    I might be able to field this one.

    I read somewhere (can’t remember where) that there was some historical linguistic evidence that suggested that the ancient terms that Biblical translators have rendered “fornication” and “adultery” meant essentially the same thing; i.e. unlawful carnal knowledge. The dicey part is which part the emphasis is on, the "unlawful" or the "carnal".

    It goes like this: unmarried daughters were the property of their fathers and married women were the property of their husbands, therefore extramarital sex was likely viewed not as inherently “bad” in and of itself, but as a form of theft; hence the “unlawful” aspect of the act.

    In addition (assuming the Biblical historians who subscribe to this are correct), even that far back, the loosely-aligned tribes which eventually came to be known as the Hebrews (being a demographic minority) were anxiously waiting for some form of messiah through a particular lineage, so geneology was of paramount importance; illegitimate children of dubious ancestry would have been considered extremely problematic.

    This would explain why, in the OT (Leviticus, I think), the penalty for horny unmarried youths gettin’ busy was A) a shotgun marriage just in case there was a bun the oven, or if that didn’t work out, B) the young fella having to pay the girls’ dad a monetary fine roughly equivalent to a dowry, and all parties involved were required to put the matter behind them in the interests of community solidarity. Look it up if you don’t believe me (and read between the lines if you're able). After all, even back then, seasoned adults with a smidgen of reason probably understood and were at least a little sympathetic to how hormone-happy teenagers could get.

    By that logic, theft of “carnal knowledge” of an unmarried young woman was excusable; dad would be pissed, but everybody’d get over it eventually, particularly if no pregnancy resulted.

    On the other hand, theft of “carnal knowledge” of a married woman was a whole ‘nother ball of wax, and they took it way more seriously. Clearly, it didn’t always result in execution; after all, if marital fidelity statistics back then roughly matched what they do now (and we have every reason to assume they did), and capital punishment was applied liberally when evidence was clear, the Hebrews would have gone extinct within a few generations (overlapping?;D). Most likely, the cuckolded (and probably polygamous) husband was - more often than not - willing to accept compensation of some sort, and simply directed his attentions to a new “favorite” wife or concubine (once again, in the interests of community solidarity).

    That being said, seriously messing with inheritance and geneology was askin’ for a whole ton of hurt, and if it got messy, potential feuds between clans (that would otherwise be tight) could be in the making. Given how small a group the Hebrews purportedly were, it seems to me that tribal survival would have trumped personal issues among adults of responsible community age.

    I could be wrong.

    With regards to the account of Phineas and the Moabite hottie, they way I’ve always understood it, they were put down for defying a capital edict made by Joshua and the rest of the Judges; she’d have been executed even if she’d walked into the camp wearing a burka, three layers of mummy wrapping, and a chastity belt.

    The way the account reads, the Moabite women were specifically commissioned as agents provocateurs, and instructed to use whatever means necessary (up to and including the ancient equivalent of sex, drugs, and rock’n’roll) to undermine the Hebrews’ family, tribal, and national affiliations, and thusly undermine their military effectiveness.

    Remember, the religious rites of many Caananite tribes reportedly involved multiple sexual partners, so they were very experienced, not to mention seducing the (relatively) sexually naïve young Hebrew soldiers probably wouldn’t have been considered an overly unpleasant duty “for their country”.

    Intelligence agencies still do that even 3500 years later.

  • jam
    jam

    a female friend of mine was dating A JW (under cover).She broke it off after A

    couple months. She told me the man was weird, all he wanted to do was

    mutual masturbation , strange for A 45 yr. old man.

  • Vidiot
    Vidiot

    Adding to my last post:

    Conservative theologians' inherent bias can't help but affect their ideology and thusly, their efforts at scriptural translation and interpretation. Is it any wonder, then, that historical church fathers (like Ted), "couldn't allow the brothers and sisters (i.e. unwashed masses) too much rope", therefore feeling compelled to paint all nonmarital sex (and even some forms of marital sex) as evil?

    Why, if they hadn't, the unwashed masses would almost certainly turn into a giant, heaving, slippery mass of moaning, nekkid, sweaty bodies within minutes.

    Not to mention that, humans being what we are, we all tend to judge others as we judge ourselves (we really can't help it, seeing as how we can't see inside anybody else's brain). If the clergy class is, in the deep dark reptile parts of their brains, running rampant with hedonistic, sex-crazed/repressed freakiness, of course they'd conclude that the "brothers and sisters" must be even worse.

    Can't have that sort of thing, now; not if you're building a religious movement designed to skim the votes of the devout-yet-disillusioned-with-their-own-church fence-sitters.

    That reminds me, someone I know once mentioned that he always thought it was weird that fundy groups didn't generally like sex, because procreation would theoretically help build up a group's membership, right (there's a quandry for the church fathers)? I agreed, but reminded him that, generally, authoritarian regimes would prefer their subjects to direct their energies toward expansion and conversion (militant or otherwaise), rather than take the time to nurture potential members from infancy to adulthood.

    Much faster, that way.

  • Magwitch
    Magwitch

    #5 Porneia DOES NOT require ..... sexual climax. I wonder if this is clarified because every inexperienced young man comes in 2 seconds, which is definately not the case for the poor girl. So if climax was an issue, then the male would always be in trouble and the female would be sinless. Just a thought.

    #11 stayed all night in the same house with a person of the opposite sex. GUILTY!I stay over at men's houses a lot. Sometimes even in the same bed - It's usually because I did not want to drink and drive or because I did not want to drive in bad weather. Nothing has ever remotely happened in the area of PORNEA. My male friends are not the sexual pigs the watchtower says non jw's are

    #19 A glutton routinely shows a lack of restraint , even gorging himself on food to the point of feeling very uncomfortable. GUILTY! I LOVE FOOD! usually to the point of putting on stretch pants after dinner.

    I guess I will not be getting reinstated any time soon.

  • scary21
    scary21

    #19 Gluttony is not determined by someones size ..............only by being to excited, or enjoying your food too much. If you loosen that belt a

    notch you may be DF.......................I'm 500 lb , sit around eating slowly with no viger all day long ..no problem CRAZY!!!!!!!

    (I'm not 500 lbs, just saying)

    You guys are too funny!!!!!!! JW gone bad, I second that motion for a committee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    out of cotrol thanks for the great thread Flipper

  • flipper
    flipper

    BOTSWANA- I think God doesn't punish animals for doing it in the butt because he's occupied with more " pressing " matters. No pun intended.

    VIDIOT- I agree with you that right wing religious leaders ( Jaracz included ) got all hung up on sexual acts because they secretly are pretty kinky themselves. So they fear losing control of themselves- so they project it onto other witnesses that EVERYBODY is kinky and wanting to jump each others bones constantly. Enjoyed those points you brought out in your posts. Good job.

    JAM- If I were a woman - I'd run like hell from a 45 year old man who ONLY wanted to mutually masturbate and nothing else. The dude sounds like he was a perpetual teenager . Can you imagine him at 90 ? Pretty sick.

    MAGWITCH- I like your reasoning. A sizeable number of women do not orgasm during sex ( allegedly ) so according to the elders manual " they are sinless. " Also- the WT society is ALWAYS imputing wrong motives to men and women for being alone together. It's ridiculous. People in congregations used to freak out when a 21 yr.old brother would drive a 45 to 50 yr.old sister alone somewhere. Like, what are they gonna do ? Rip each others clothes off and start boinking right there in the car ? It's crazy. And yes, I'm with ya on pleading guilty to gluttony. I love my food too ! Ain't no WT society or elders gonna keep me from chowing down good Mexican food ! No way. Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • Vidiot
    Vidiot

    flipper - "A sizeable number of women do not orgasm during sex ( allegedly )...

    Those poor women. I want to do something to help, but what? What??!!

  • Vidiot
    Vidiot

    Vidiot - "That being said, seriously messing with inheritance and geneology was askin’ for a whole ton of hurt, and if it got messy, potential feuds between clans (that would otherwise be tight) could be in the making. Given how small a group the Hebrews purportedly were, it seems to me that tribal survival would have trumped personal issues among adults of responsible community age."

    In addition, sexually transmitted diseaeses surely existed back then as they do now, and the ancient Biblical people often believed that disease was punishment for sin. If one was known to have multiple sexual partners (which, in an environment that lacked any real form of STD protection would vasty increase the chances of STD infection), and that same individual(s) caught the clap, how hard would it be for a semi-nomadic pre-industrial culture to conclude that the illness was God's punishment for "sinful" promiscuous sex?

    The problem (with conservative, Biblical literalist religion) now is that in the developed world, geneology doesn't really matter much to most people anymore, women are no longer viewed as property (in theory, anyway), and one can protect oneself from STD infection by being responsible with one's sex life.

    Of course, to acknowledge that and therefore follow that line of reasoning might lead one to conclude that consensual nonmarital sex could be viewed as not (necessarily) wrong or "sinful" in this day and age.

    That would be "too much rope", though, wouldn't it?

  • flipper
    flipper

    VIDIOT- Somehow, someway- I think you understand how to give a woman an orgasm. Just a hunch. LOL !

    Good point you make that many people in Bible times probably thought getting VD was a punishment from God. I can only assume they didn't have protection or birth control back then , unless a guy wrapped a sheepskin around his wanker, who knows ? Or perhaps h or the woman took some magic potient internally that affected one getting pregnant or they had quirky medicine for VD.

    Bottom line is there is much BETTER protection these days in modern society against sexually transmitted diseases. People still need to be responsible

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