having a teen-aged daughter to worry about brings an amazing clarity to this issue!
Okay, I'll be explicit, seeing you brought up the subject of your teenaged daughter.
Say your teenaged daughter has a boyfriend who wants to marry her. He has a job and all his teeth, so you think he's okay.
An extra advantage is that he doesn't wish to make love to her before the wedding. You don't see that as a problem.... in fact you think WOW, he doesn't want to have sex with my daughter, woooo hoo!
You attend the wedding.
Two months later your daughter calls you with some news. Which of the following would make you happiest?
A. Your daughter's new husband is not able to achieve an erection and the marriage hasn't been consumated.
B. Your daughter finds her new husband's body totally repulsive and cannot spend another night under the same covers as him.
C. Your daughter's new husband ejaculates within 30 seconds of seeing her in a nightgown.
D. Your daughter's new husband requests that she gives him oral sex but he refuses to reciprocate.
E. Your daughter's new husband has extremely bad breath and she cannot tolerate the thought of him on top of her for another night.
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