The last thing I said at a meeting was borderline disrespectful so maybe I'd pick it up from there.
It's like some have said already---just answer the WTquestions straight -up:
Over a year ago the WT had a question about how as Christians how we do kindnesses w/o "letting the right hand know what the left hand is doing". I was quiet during the commenting, then couldn't stand all the pious expressions.I was called on. Said that if we ourselves are not paying attention to our Christian actions, then no one should quiz you on why you miss meeting or field service--they should trust that you were taking care of a family matter or helping someone. You shouldn't have to explain your actions to anyone else. They should leave you alone and trust that you are doing what you should.
The conductor said that he didn't think that that was what the FS had in mind for the paragraph.
That's when I just had to stop going 'til things got resolved.