Thanks Yiz, I never meant to offend you in any way...I know things are tough for you right now and you must have the patience of Job to go through what you do.
Job? lol, I never considered myself Job, but thanks for the comparison.
I wish you could get your wife to use the internet, she probably gets bored. She could probably use some more support regarding her son. That must really hurt her having to throw him out. Even if he is a jerk with problems. It's a motherly thing to want to protect their children no matter what. A bad thing sometimes I must admit..but to her he is probably still her baby.
I wish she could, but unfortuantly, her eyesight isn't what used to be. She's had surgeries done on both eyes. Draining what's called "floaters", blood floating in her eyes. From veins that has been popping due to diabeties. She needs to see her eye doctor again and have them checked some more. She's had needles stuck in both of her eyes, I can't imagine the pain that she goes through when the pain meds wears off. It has to really hurt!
Yes, she can be a problem when it comes to her feelings for her son. She loves him so much. Yet, I'm protecting her from him the best way I can. If I hear something from my step-son, I just won't bring it up with her. It just causes her to become more depressed.
I won't allow her to become an enabler, if I can help it.