I am soon going into a KH for the first time and I could use some advice around etiquette etc. I know next to nothing besides the fundamental beliefs of JWs, I personally dont believe in any religion, and that stance isnt ever going to change, however I don't want to come across as rude or disrespectful.
The reason I am going is my wife is JW, is fairly devout and has been the majority of her life. This has been the cause of many arguments, particularly around our kids (aged 2&4). She was recently unfaithful, however we have decided to try and work things out (I have another thread on here about all that if you want to know more). I feel that part of us working on our marriage is for me to better understand her religion. I have purposefully remained ignorant to it, ie having never even stepped foot inside a KH. But I now feel differently, I think that I do need to understand (not believe) more, and I feel as if I should know who these people are (ie elders), that seem to have a bearing on my children, wife, marriage and ultimately me. As it stands now I wouldnt know if I passed them in the street. I should probably add here she is currently on reprove.
She wants me to come to the memorial, she thinks that would be a better one for me to come to for whatever reason.
Anyway, some advice would be appreciated as I am still very green around the whole thing.